Stop Complaining, Start Living.
It was morning. 4th January 2019. 8:30 AM. I had a study leave from school, because I had an English Exam the next day. My mom was in the bathroom, dad had gone to the gym and my younger brother was loitering around, he had winter vacation, ugh.
I was making my bed, like folding blankets etc. and out of nowhere it came to my mind that I have this friend who complains a lot. In fact, she complains of almost about everything. Parents, life, academics, clothes, shopping, food and god knows what.
Honestly, I don't like people who complain a lot and compare their lives with others'.
She's a really good friend of mine. I really like her. I can't go straight up to her face and say, "I get negative vibes from you", (a bit of a coward). So, I have this message for her(even though she doesn't really read my blog at all) and for anybody who complains a lot.
2. DO YOU KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF COMPLAINING?
If you've read my Get The Vibe thought , you probably know the answer to this.Negativity.
Imagine being around a person who complains 24/7, won't you get frustrated? Won't you feel like running out of there and go somewhere people are happy?
Yes, exactly! Complaining shows that you're sick of your life. So if you my friend, are always rantng , kindly observe the behavior of people who are always around you. Be it your parents , friends, co-workers or your better-half. They'll try and change the topic, they'll talk something not realted to your issue. By which I mean that they don't like you complaining.
Now, for example , my friend , she always complains about her parents and she compares them to mine. I bet she's never seen WHY she finds my parents better than hers. Basically, my parents are cool cats, maybe hers aren't.
It's very simple. If you share some details of your life with your parents. They'll trust you and believe you. They'll be cool.
In the other scenario, if they have no idea of your god damn life. They'll be strict, because they don't even know you.
So if this way and how things are this way,you'll definitely find a simple way out.
Also, I don't mean making your life just like theirs. Instead, looking at things which make her life better according to you. Maybe, she just smiles a lot.\
4) BE HAPPY!
Ranting makes you irritated and your aura negative. Stop complaining. Stop comparing. Fix your life. Look at the positive light. Please make it a habit to turn a blind eye, towards negativity.
Get up each morning and a good song.
[Some songs I really like:
I was making my bed, like folding blankets etc. and out of nowhere it came to my mind that I have this friend who complains a lot. In fact, she complains of almost about everything. Parents, life, academics, clothes, shopping, food and god knows what.
Honestly, I don't like people who complain a lot and compare their lives with others'.
She's a really good friend of mine. I really like her. I can't go straight up to her face and say, "I get negative vibes from you", (a bit of a coward). So, I have this message for her(even though she doesn't really read my blog at all) and for anybody who complains a lot.
1. WHY DO YOU COMPLAIN?
Several reasons can stand. She has better parents than me. She looks better than me, etc. You know what "than" stand for ? Comparison, which is wrong.
The moment you will comparing anything, whether it's grades or Instagram feeds; you will observe a difference in you attitude.
"Your life craves for attention. Stop noticing other lives, start noticing yours."Well, I can say "Dude, get a life" here. But hey, you already have one.Give it attention. Anything which belongs to you, whether it's your friends or your life, it craves attention.If you will notice your life ,you'll see so many sites which need a repair. Fix them.
2. DO YOU KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF COMPLAINING?
If you've read my Get The Vibe thought , you probably know the answer to this.Negativity.
Imagine being around a person who complains 24/7, won't you get frustrated? Won't you feel like running out of there and go somewhere people are happy?
Yes, exactly! Complaining shows that you're sick of your life. So if you my friend, are always rantng , kindly observe the behavior of people who are always around you. Be it your parents , friends, co-workers or your better-half. They'll try and change the topic, they'll talk something not realted to your issue. By which I mean that they don't like you complaining.
"See the good."3) SEE THE WHY?
Now, for example , my friend , she always complains about her parents and she compares them to mine. I bet she's never seen WHY she finds my parents better than hers. Basically, my parents are cool cats, maybe hers aren't.
It's very simple. If you share some details of your life with your parents. They'll trust you and believe you. They'll be cool.
In the other scenario, if they have no idea of your god damn life. They'll be strict, because they don't even know you.
So if this way and how things are this way,you'll definitely find a simple way out.
Also, I don't mean making your life just like theirs. Instead, looking at things which make her life better according to you. Maybe, she just smiles a lot.\
4) BE HAPPY!
Ranting makes you irritated and your aura negative. Stop complaining. Stop comparing. Fix your life. Look at the positive light. Please make it a habit to turn a blind eye, towards negativity.
Get up each morning and a good song.
[Some songs I really like:
- Happier: Marshmellow, ft. Bastille.
- Hey there Delilah : White T's Shirt.
- Come Back To These Days: Rudimental, ft. people i don't remember.
- Lost In Japan: Shawn Mendes ft. Zedd (Remix)
- The Trip (Title track): Annie'thing (you'll find this on Youtube)]
"Problems exist in everybody's life , it's just the way you handle them."
By Saniya Sethi
(share with someone who complains a lot!)
Thanks For Reading!
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